Balaton lake, Hungary

Solo-sex as an escape into heaven

The good, the ugly and the bad

Okay, most of us have done it. Touching ourselves for sexual self-pleasure. Having a time of relaxation, relieve of stress, a realignment with our body as a form of meditation. Engaging in the beauty and its empowering feelings. A sacred time not to be disturbed. Connecting with the universe in us, reaching for the heavens.

  • of fable and at ease, instead of being nervous and in a rush,
  • relaxed, instead of being restless and anxious,
  • already fulfilled, instead of empty,
  • connected with your body, instead of being more disconnected with your body and your desire,
  • you do not feel an urge or necessity to reach an orgasm,
  • if you have a headache, the problem will be almost gone after masturbation.
  • boredom, anger, bad mood, anxiety,
  • a need for other stimulation like fantasy, porn, sex-toys to come to a climax,
  • your are drawn to try dangerous or harmful stuff,
  • after a couple of orgasms you still feel the need to reach an another climax.

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